Do you know you know that you need to discover what you want in life and go for it if you aspire to succeed? Yes, you definitely need to and it does not require any spiritual intervention to know this. In other words, if what you want in life is success, then you need the wisdom to know what to do, the knowledge of how to do it, and above all, self-motivation. There are two parts to self-motivation or internal motivation, which are mental and physical. In the mental stage, you conceive in your mind where you want to go, while in the physical state, you take action to get to where you aspire to be.
According to George Shinn, a renowned motivational writer, and speaker, “… the mind and action are important. It’s like driving a car – you have to know where you’re going before you get in and start driving. Self-motivation – thought and action – is a key to success.” The purpose of motivation is to get action, not just random action but specific actions, and the willingness to act on your ideas is at least as important as the ideas themselves. If you want to be successful in life, you need to be a self-starter, give your success aspiration all you have, and dare yourself to act now.
“Results demand action, and goal oriented people know that action – action now – is the only way their goals are going to be achieved,” submits Shinn, adding that, “the world is full of opportunities waiting to be seized. And new ones turn up every day. But the key to making the most of those opportunities is action.”
This implies that you should dream your dreams, but motivate yourself to put your plans into motion.
Steve Chandler, a sales trainer, as well as a keynote and convention speaker, reflects that to say each of us has a fixed personality is a myth, and it is self-limiting and denies us of the power of continuous creation. In our ongoing creation of who we are, nothing has a greater impact on that process than the choice we make between optimism and pessimism. There are no optimism and pessimism personalities. There are only single, individual choices for optimistic or pessimistic thoughts, illuminates Chandler. According to this motivator, the choices you make for your thinking either motivate you or not, and although clear visualization of a goal is a good first step, a joyfully motivated life demands more. To live the life you want to live submits this icon, the action is required. Even William Shakespeare says thus: “Action is eloquence.”
According to Dr. Walter Doyle Staples, one of America’s most celebrated authorities on human potential issues, “Motivation has long been recognised as vital to the fulfilment of human potential. It has never been so important, however, as in our current era of drastic social and technological change and the stress that necessarily results. There can be few subjects as fascinating as positive stimulating motivation if only because it means so many different things to different people.”
Staple submits that most people would like to have motivation but do not know how to go about acquiring it. He adds that only positive motivation will bring about productive results.
“Positive motivation concentrates on desires, whereas negative motivation concentrates on fear. Each is the other’s antithesis,” reflects Staples.
One of the things to do in life to be able to motivate yourself to success is to identify your core desires. According to Jack M. Zufelt, author of The DNA of Success, everybody possesses what it takes to achieve great desires, but they first to find the motivation and direction their life lacks. We need to pinpoint our core desires which are those things in our lives for which we have an intense, unwavering and deeply felt needs. Zufelt says whether you want to earn more money, establish deeper relationships, boost spirituality, you must first identify your core desires, those intense wants that drive you from within.
Ideas and Preparation
By analytical extension, another thing you need to do to become an achiever through self-motivation is to have ideas and prepare. According to Harvey Firestone, an industrialist, capital is not so important in business, neither is experience. What is important is an idea. If you have ideas, you have the main asset you need, and there isn’t any limit to what you can do with your business and your life.
According to Staples, “All accomplishment, whether big or small, begins with an idea. Although ideas, in general, are not in short supply, creative and innovative ideas are, and so are people who can turn them into reality.”
In his own view, Shinn says “… you should prepare and your chance will come. Don’t wait for success, it is waiting for you! When opportunity knocks, you are the one who must open the door. I firmly believe that people make their success or failure.” He further adds that “… you need to use your time more wisely; know the secret of success; develop an ability to communicate, and be independent but be yourself.”
Goal-Setting and Planning
Having got the necessary ideas and preparation, another thing to do to be able to accomplish through self-motivation is to set goals and plan. According to Staples, before any adventure, take the time to plan, and design your own plan of attack. Let life respond to you. If you’re making all the first moves, you will be surprised at how often you can pin life down.
In the same notional vein, John B. Miner, the author of The 4 Routes to Entrepreneurial Success, submits thus:
“Personal achievers find it natural to think about the future and what they will achieve. But they go beyond the dreams to more systematic planning. Write down specific goals that will really tax you. Establish a timetable for getting your goals and the procedures for reaching them. This is not something to do and then put away in the drawer. Do it on continuing basis, constantly revising, as new problems are faced and new things are learnt.”
Shinn observes that a successful person, no sooner does he achieve his goal than he will set newer and higher goals in order to further extend his success and happiness. This does not mean that a successful person has no disappointments. But he is successful because he knows how to overcome them and get on top of them. Shinn further submits that there are four things achievers must do to be able to believe in themselves:
- Make a list of the goals in your life
- Make a list of the steps you must take to reach your various goals
- Be honest with yourself, be hardworking, etc.
- Improve on deficient personal-behaviour qualities
James J. Semradek and Michael P. Butler state that without a vision, you don’t know where you are going and certainly cannot develop a strategy to get there. The vision you establish creates the future you will have. Establishing your vision requires that you integrate who you are and the opportunity you have chosen to pursue a cohesive whole.
According to Staples, when formulating your personal goals, you should endeavour to keep this simple PROBE rule in mind. That is, make the goals:
P – Practical
B – Reasonable
O – Obtainable
B – Big
E – Exciting
Having a strong belief is another way to motivate one’s self to the highest rung of the achievement ladder. Shin defines belief as “… an attitude, a point of view, the way you think about something. You form attitudes through knowledge and experiences. You can change your attitude if you motivate yourself to do so … Regardless of who you are, your education or station in life, your attitude can be totally positive if you believe in yourself.” According to Miner, “… believe in yourself and in what you are doing.”
Energy and Good Health Habits
Being energetic and cultivation of good health habits are another area of worthy consideration when talking about achievements through self-motivation. Shinn submits that you need energy for successful motivation. Energy is like the propellant that goes into a satellite to provide thrust (action), like the gasoline that powers our cars. But the amount of energy an individual has to expend is measured by the condition of the human body. Health is a person’s physical and mental state.
According to Miner, as regard tips for personal achievers, you need to devote your substantial energies as fully as possible to the venture you are engaging yourself in. Throw yourself into the work and spend long hours at it. Additionally, you need to make your appearance an asset. Develop a magnetic personality; build on successful relationships, overcome worry, doubt, and fear. Master your tensions and learn to relax. Overcome failure, learn from your mistakes and solve your problems.
Visualising Your Last Hours
Paradoxically speaking, the readiness to visualise your last hours is a self-motivation propellant when talking about achievements. According to Chandler, “Pretending you aren’t going to die is detrimental to your enjoyment of life … confronting our own death doesn’t have to wait until we run out of life. In fact being able to vividly imagine our last hours on our deathbed creates paradoxical sensations; the feeling of being born all over again – the first step to fearless self-motivation.”
Additionally as regards self-motivation, Chandler says you should stay hungry, tell yourself a true lie, keep your eyes on the prize, learn to sweat in peace, simplify your life, look for the lost gold, push all your own buttons, build a track record, welcome the unexpected, put your library on wheels, light your lazy dynamite, and sit quietly to achieve your dreams.
What is the essence of coming to this world without making an indelible impression or becoming highly reputable through self-motivation? You need to deploy all efforts to be able to succeed and your best bet is to reactivate your internal motivation mechanism.